We liked this book a lot. Quindlen is a beautiful writer. Her character-building, her settings, her description of everyday life is skilled & believable. The main character is Polly, married to Mark -- and they're dealing with infertility, going thru round after round of IVF. Polly is part of a book club with 4 other women, they meet monthly mainly to talk. As a joke, her book clubs bffs buy Polly a DNA kit which reveals any possible family out there. This sets off a flurry of bewilderment and worry for Polly (no spoilers).
The theme of "being enough" weaves its way thru the book. Polly, who feels less of a woman because of the infertility. The students at the girls school where Polly teaches. A specific character (no spoiler) who searches for missing family links, even though they are loved by the small family they have.
There's ample "perfection" in this book that, at times, feels a bit too good to be true. Eg, Polly's brother Garrison is the best ever big bro. Polly's husband is the sweetest. Her mother-in-law is perfect. Polly's friends are fairly perfect too, one rich, who likes to share her wealth with expensive gifts for her book club bffs. Polly is great as a teacher, and her students idolize her. --- That's quite a lot of perfection, yes?
We give this book 4.25 out of 5 stars. Deducting 3/4 of a star due to the overload of perfection. Also, we both got lost a few times. Eg, introducing us to Polly's nieces, then many pages later, we hear their names again ...but it was hard to recall who they were because the intro was brief and seemed inconsequential at the time. And a couple other instances. As the reader, I don't want to get lost once, let alone 3 times. Again, both thumbs up on this book.